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Business Meeting of the Cherry Grove Off-Island (CGOI)
Group of Alcoholic’s Anonymous (AA) . Wednesday, April 17, 2024
Meeting began at 6:58 P.M.
Business Meeting of the Cherry Grove Off-Island (CGOI)
Group of Alcoholic’s Anonymous (AA) . March 20, 2024
Meeting began at 7:01 p.m.
In attendance: Todd (chair), Tony (secretary, myself), Margaret, Mitch, Gwen B, Dolf H.O.W., Donna M., Edward V., Emily O. (left early), Richie, Kir, Ray B. (joined late)
Top agenda item this evening – elections for meeting chairs. Commitment for April thru June. Todd provided a quick overview of format for each of the evenings.
(Note: There have been several staffing changes since this Business meeting. Names listed below reflect our most up-to-date Chair names, as of April 9, 2024).
Sunday – Taylor B
Monday – Jeannie F
Tuesday – Matt B.
Wednesday – Bob S
Thursday – Emily B.
Friday – Emily O.
Saturday – Anna C
Todd thanked Secretary Tony, Cliff, and Ray for their service in noting, disseminating and posting the Minutes.
OLD BUSINESS:
Chair invited a motion to dispense with the reading of The Minutes which had included discussions only, but no new motions had been made. Richie made the motion to dispense, Edward V. seconded it.
NEW BUSINESS:
Richie announced that the fourth Anniversary of our AA Group is coming up on March 22, 2024.
Margaret made a Motion to be voted upon at our April Business Meeting. Margaret related that she had attended the Step Meeting recently when someone identified that they were attending their very first AA Meeting. Meeting then continued with the pre-scheduled discussion of Step Eight.
Margaret made the following motion, that was seconded by Edward:
“I make a motion that during our Step/Tradition Meeting (Tuesdays), if a participant identifies themselves as attending their first AA Meeting, that the topic for that meeting will become Step One.”
(Note: Margaret’s motion will now be at the top of our Agenda at our April Meeting for Discussion and a Vote)
Richie suggested that people review the procedures and formats for running meetings. Todd said he will include reminders in his next mailing to the group
Mitchell commented on the smoothness in which these meetings are run in comparison to some other meetings.
Dolf suggested that perhaps our group should plan something special for our Group Anniversary dates in the future.
Chair entertained a Motion to Adjourn. A motion was made by Richie.
Seconded by Edward V.
Meeting ended at 7:21p.m.
Our Next Business Meeting will be held on April 17th.
Respectfully submitted,
Tony
Posted on 4/12/2024
Business Meeting of the Cherry Grove Off-Island (CGOI)
Group of Alcoholic’s Anonymous (AA) .
Wednesday February 21, 2024 on Zoom.
Meeting began at 6:59p.m.
In attendance:
Donna M., Ray B., Edward V., Margarita, Dolf H.O.W., Margaret, Michael C.,
Cliff-Philadelphia, Richie V., Todd (chair), Taylor, Bob Smith, Greg B., Emily B., Tony (myself, secretary)
Todd began reading the previous minutes (Motion to accept; seconded) which he announced had been posted on the group website, with expressed appreciation to Ray.
Reports:
Cliff made a correction in the previous minutes. Also explained that New York Intergroup does not list meetings on its website that are exclusively online meetings. Donna raised the question as to why, since the off-island group is affiliated (she presumed) with the in-person Fire Island group. Cliff explained the two A.A. groups are separate.
Old Business:
Todd continued with old business. Requested clarification from either Cliff or Ray: Are all meetings open/closed? To which Cliff replied, ‘All are open’.
New Business:
Admittedly, the opening remark of new business morphed into many different topics. For these minutes, I relay the remarks as they occurred to the best of my ability.
BOB – referred to open meetings and nursing students, which makes him uncomfortable. Suggested the possibility of a closed meeting
RICHIE – talked about the ZOOM bombing at the earlier meeting. CLIFF – commented on disabling the ‘chat’, which Richie did.
MARGARITA – commented on Bob’s remark and asked why to consider the reasons for a closed meeting.
Ad lib from several people…..reasons of confidentiality.
RICHIE – brought up the dilemma of what meetings would be selected as open/closed.
MICHAEL C – He has no problem having some meetings closed
TODD – reminded people that Bob’s statement had not been addressed.
DONNA – brought up the point that closed meetings won’t eliminate the bombers at meetings.
EDWARD V – brought up the topic of ‘camera being off’. He stressed a few times, however, ‘Our primary purpose is to stay sober’.
CLIFF – commented that the meeting had morphed into five different topics, and, that we are all still learning because of ZOOM.
MARGARET – asked two questions: ‘ Why are we getting more people?’ we must be doing something right, ‘What’s really broken?’
DOLF – ‘This thing has gone into all different tangents.’ He suggested that it would be nice to know ahead of time if there are any students.
RAY – complimented Todd at his manner of running meetings.
TODD – finished the topic with an invitation for anyone who may feel strongly about this topic after our discussion tonight to make a motion.
CLIFF – reminded Todd and the group that motions AND change do not happen at the same meeting. First, the motion, then vote at the next meeting.
RICHIE – made a suggestion to discuss ‘this’ further.
DOLF – made motion to change script to invite medical students to introduce themselves. Nobody seconded.
RICHIE – directed to Cliff that, as chair, he will deal directly with the bombers as he sees fit.
TODD asked for a motion to adjourn
CLIFF – reminded the group that minutes should be emailed to those on the list.
TODD went back to topic of adjournment.
Edward V moved to adjourn; Bob seconded.
Meeting closed at 7:46p.m.
Business Meeting of the Cherry Grove Off-Island (CGOI)
Group of Alcoholic’s Anonymous (AA) .
Wednesday January 17 2024 on Zoom.
In attendance: Todd S. (chair), Tony (secretary), Emily O., Edward V., Margarita, Margaret, Cliff-Philadelphia, Michael C., Donna M., Gail, Greg B., Bob S.,
Mitch, Emily B., Ray.
Todd called meeting to order at 7:01pm.
We opened with the Serenity Prayer.
Officer’s reports:
Group Chair Report: Todd S described his new role as Group Chair and spoke about the following talking points:
~ Group Conscience is never to be feared
~ Robert’s Rules have traditionally been useful as a guideline for keeping things moving, on track, and well organized for AA Business Meetings.
~ In the role of Group Chair, Todd says he will not have a vote, will not make motions himself, nor voice his opinion on any particular matter. He sees his role as facilitating others to put forward clear motions, and to facilitate that these are properly discussed and fairly voted upon to achieve Group Conscience.
~ Todd also intends to revive a previous procedure in CGOI that Minutes from each Business Meeting will be posted on the 6pmmeeting.com website for reference and easy access by others. Secretary (Tony B.) agreed to email Minutes to Chair who will review/edit and then forward to Ray B. for publishing on the CGOI website.
~ Todd sees his overall role as Chair: “Keep it simple”.
Old Business: All positions of Meeting Chairs had been successfully filled at December Business Meeting for Jan to March 2024. Meeting Chairpeople are: Sunday: Ray B.; Monday: Greg B; Tuesday: Edward V.; Wednesday: Richie V.; Thursday: Emily B.; Friday: Emily O.; Saturday: Margarita.
Our group’s sobriety requirements for all of our CGOI meeting chairs is a minimum of 90 days of continuous sobriety for each Sunday through Friday Meeting slots. Our chair for the Beginner’s Meeting (Saturdays) has a sobriety requirement of at least one year of continuous sobriety.
Ongoing discussion: Introduced by Clifford for making announcements in the week prior to the next round of elections for new Meeting Chairs (elections to be held on March 20, 2024) so that outreach is made to reach attendees who may only be regularly attending a specific night of the week. (Clarification: No formal motion was made at this time, so this is still merely an ongoing conversation at this point).
New Business: Chair observed that all of our seven weekly meetings seem to be up and running smoothly at the start of this new year 2024.
Chair asked if anyone in attendance had any issues that they felt needed attention as New Business.
Seeing and hearing none, Chair adjourned the Meeting at 7:12pm
Our next Business Meeting will be held on February 21, 2024 on Zoom. All are welcome. Meeting Chairpersons are encouraged to attend.
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What Is CrossTalk in A.A.? Cross talking in A.A. is when a person gives advice to others who have already shared their stories. The individual speaks to them directly, instead of speaking to the group as a whole. Cross talk can also include interrupting the person who is speaking or asking them a question unexpectedly.
Fellow Off Islanders
- Zoom room is open 24/7 as part of the group resources for one on one meetings or to start meetings
- Contact List is working well
September 21, 2022
Business Meeting Opened at 7:02 PM
- Minutes – Accepted an Approved: Greg B Motion, Mitch 2nd
- New Commitments: 90 days of continuous sobriety or more; chairperson of group have one year or more of sobriety. Cliff outlined the responsibilities of the position.
- Group Meeting Leaders: October, November, December
- Monday, Reflections Meeting: Jeanne
- Tuesday, Step Meeting: Holly
- Wednesday, Topic: Cathy A.
- Thursday, Big Book: Connie
- Friday, Speaker: Ray (TJ – Update)
- Saturday, Beginners: Emily?
- Sunday, Discussion/Topic: Mitch
- If anyone wishes to help or suggest speakers, leaders, please reach out to any of the chairpersons.
- New meeting list: www.6pmlist.com
- Meeting adjourned at 7:17 PM Motion Mitch Approved Holly
- Notes from last month below for review
- Meeting held – June 15th
- Opened by Jeanne F
- New Chairs volunteered as below – Amended after meeting
- New chairs / commitments
- Group Chairperson – Cliff – 6 month
- Secretary – Ray – 6 months
- All meetings are 3 Month Terms
- Monday Reflections Greg B
- Tuesday Step Connie
- Wednesday Topic Matt
- Thursday BB Margarita
- Friday Speaker – July Mitch – August Emily – September OPEN
- Saturday Beginners – Ray July – Cliff August – September OPEN
- Sunday Topic / Discussion Holly
- Discussion had regarding what happens when no one raises hand
- A few minutes of silence is OK
- Ending meeting early is OK . – it was suggested no calling on folks unsolicited or conversations take place that belong in fellowship – Up to each chair to do their best to maintain meeting as close as possible to in person meetings
- Review and approve minutes from last month
- Try to get chairs for September meetings that are open
- Reminder as we discuss possible changes we review this month and revisit next month before making any changes
- Discuss on screen appearance during meeting – Smoking / Eating / Busy activity
- Discuss adding / reading the promises at the end of each meeting which will help when no one raises hand close to end
- If anyone has other items to be addressed please email me or bring up this evening
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